Sunday, January 22, 2017

Who is normal ?

One of the lovely quotes from the book..
In ‘A sense of ending’. The author says ‘To understand the history it’s very important to understand who the historian is. Because History is written from a historian’s perspective.’ I feel the same way for any author/director/musician so on and so on forth. I always go back to the originator (author, director, musician and any other creator) to understand his or her perspective  also try to understand the origin of thought (if any). With wiki and the web it has become very easy to do the same.

But as I finished ‘The curious incident of the dog in the night time’ By Mark Haddon – I did not have access to net and for once I wanted to write my feelings towards the book as raw as it could be. Typically there are lot of incidents which happen between the finishing of the book and writing about the same. Although few specific thoughts always linger in your mind regarding a specific book but the full impact can be experienced around the time you finish the book.

The curious incident of the dog in the night time;

It takes some time for the book to grow on you. The beginning of the book is made
interesting with a mystery dog killing and the reasoning behind that is also explained quite nicely. In a nutshell the book gives a peek into a 15 year old’s mind – but his is not a regular mind but a child who has some kind of psychological problem (later I learned it as Asperger's Syndrome) which has nothing to do with intelligence but to do with dealing with people which includes his parents and public places. Maybe there is a syndrome for the same but I am not aware of the same at this point.


The whole book is about what the boy is thinking in his mind and how he is coping with the external world. He has his own explanation for everything – including life. The book is nicely illustrated with examples of puzzles or drawing of a cow or station – how the boy sees it in his head. He is extremely intelligent and understands Maths better than me at least and has a photographic memory. It was amazing when he explained – how what a normal person can see vs what he saw when they looked at the same field. The kind of detail which he can see probably none of us can see. That’s because when we see something we also think if ‘back home the pressure cooker is on?’ while he just sees.

He lives in terror because he cannot let people touch him – if they do he shouts, including his parents, they have to win his confidence before they can communicate with him. When he goes inside a station he see too many things so that he cannot differentiate what is important and what is not and hence prioritize his input in some sense – so he sees all signage’s of brands and instructions in one form and his mind goes blank, he cannot stand loud noises and whenever he is scared he starts doing complex maths in his mind. Once he almost gets killed because he chases his pet rat in the underground and almost gets run over by a train.

But despite all his shortcomings, he speaks the truth most of the time unless he tells white lies which he explains why he does that. In some sense the normal people like his father and mother behave in a much worse way – so that they cannot stay together and get separated with the child in father’s custody who lies that his mother is dead.

In one of my previous experience – when I had gone to a blind school. Before I could step out of my car, I was blind folded and then I had to cross the road to reach the building, have my initial interactions with people, use the toilet, eat food, experience the walls of the buildings, try to visualise a painting ….all blind folded.

My first reaction was of panic. It required a complete change in orientation of the way I do things for many days that feeling of helplessness stayed with me and it changed my perception of how a differently able person manages his daily life (at a basic level) and then how does he go to the next level of studying, experiencing so many things which we normal people do – books, movies. Plays, shows etc. And how callous are we design a toilet in office or a railway station or an airport.

I think in some way the author is gently asking us the question – 


Who is normal & Who is not? A father who lies to keep custody of his son or a son who braves all his shortcomings in search of his dead mother...
 

Some thoughts from the author 

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